20's relationship

In my middle age now, between tenagers and adult era.  I am still a blur guy. Blur about a relationship. Sometimes, we do need a serious relationship, but too serious can cause bad things too. And this could be dangerous. It can end up to suicidal, depression, mental illness, diseases like HIV AIDS and sexually transmitted diseases. I think that, at this point of life, don't take relationship with your special friend too seriously.